Why Coming Out of the Cannabis Closet Was Totally Worth It

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About two weeks ago I explained to the world “How I Went from being a Local News Anchor to a Marijuana Activist.” After years of hiding, I came out of the cannabis closet, and I couldn’t be happier with my decision.

Before telling my story, my mind was filled with every possible hypothetical. I spent hours wondering and worrying about what would happen after clicking “post” – but the incredible reaction I received was beyond what I could have ever imagined.I’m not saying it’s been easy, but it’s already been very freeing and extremely rewarding.

I believe more driven, ambitious, and responsible cannabis users should draw attention to themselves, if at all possible. It’s the only way to shift social views away from the senseless stereotypes currently associated with recreational cannabis use. If you’re considering it, here are:

3 Things I’ve Learned from Coming Out of the Cannabis Closet:

1) The Response is Overwhelmingly Positive…

I have been truly amazed by how many people have contacted me and thanked me for coming out of the cannabis closet. Thanked me. Thousands have seen my video, thousands have visited my website, and hundreds have written to me personally. Of those personal, private messages – almost all have been positive. Some of the notes have moved me to tears and every single one has just reinforced my mission to end the stigma surrounding cannabis use. There is no reason why millions of responsible adults should feel like second-class citizens for enjoying cannabis, a plant safer than alcohol, tobacco, and most pharmaceuticals.

The positive response shows that many people support cannabis use, yet it remains illegal in most of the country, and even where it’s legal, there is still a negative stigma. Every message I read just encourages me more to continue this fight for acceptance.

2) …but Haters Gonna Hate

Of course, as with anything that is seen by thousands of people, some will find reasons to be negative. Personal messages have been almost entirely supportive, but comments on various websites have certainly been mixed. I wanted to start a conversation, so I’m up for a reasonable debate on why cannabis use should be socially acceptable, but I try not to waste my time on people who aren’t willing to listen to facts and research. I did not appreciate the blatant sexism and personal attacks I received on my character, but when people resorted to cruelty, I tried not to take it to heart. It’s not easy to grin and bear it, but it helps that the haters have been outnumbered by a ratio of about 15 to 1.

If you’re nervous about people judging you, just realize that every time a responsible adult comes out of the cannabis closet, it gets a little easier for the next person who wants to take the leap. Don’t let the haters hold you back!

3) It was Totally Worth it

Comments that clearly misinterpret my message have been disheartening, but they have also resulted in something incredible: a dialogue. That’s exactly what I wanted to happen and I’ve been so impressed by countless strangers who have kept the conversation going. I’ve appreciated all the compassion, willingness to stand up for me, and well-developed arguments, complete with citations and research. My story is getting people to talk about the facts, and I know the facts are in my favor.

Because of the facts, the social acceptance of cannabis use is inevitable, but it is only possible if people take a stand. The more we educate and expose people to the truth about cannabis, the faster social change will come. If you can talk about your cannabis use, think about the difference you can make.  Education and exposure are key. So far, coming out of the cannabis closet has been totally worth it.

You can follow my journey out of the cannabis closet here, at www.AskMeAboutMarijuana.com, and stayed tuned for future articles on Marijuana Politics.

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2 thoughts on “Why Coming Out of the Cannabis Closet Was Totally Worth It

  1. The U.S. reminds me of “big brother” watching everyone, and butting in, also known as “the nanny state!”
    They have butted in about cigarettes & e-cigs, in one’s private home, so it does not surprise me about weed!

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  2. Cyd,
    I would like to thank you for your courage and passion in taking the position of champion for reform of marijuana policies and the broad misconceptions surrounding marijuana use and users. As a 43 year marijuana user, I am sometimes ashamed that, in the past I could never muster the courage to speak out against the hypocricy of marijuana policy. Today, I want to be of help to make positive changes that reflect societal tolerance of marijuana use, and the reform of policy and law that stigmatize marijuana use with criminality.
    While I agree that compared to alcohol, marijuana is harmless, I question the part of the argument where prohibition of marijuana use as a qualification for employment drives people to use alcohol. I fully believe this premise myself, and as an alcoholic in recovery, I could be a living example, but as an argument it can easily be defeated by concluding that there is no reason for anyone to drink or smoke. I also fully believe that one should not tear down a useful construct before having a a better one, and here I am guilty, but I promise to give thought to the matter of arguments.
    Please accept my grateful encouragement along your path, and also please let me know if I can be of any help, really, I want to help.

    Thanks,
    Dave

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